Someone told me that for a married man, getting a hand job is a lesser evil. I agree.
For me, evil isn’t defined as something scary that you’re going to hell in eternal damnation when you die. After all, there’s no such thing as like that. Evil is just something that involves pain or danger in this world. As long as it’s contained in a hand job where there’s no sexual intercourse involved, everything’s fine. Yet it’s still evil in the sense that instead of your money spent on it, it should have gone to pay your bills or buying your wife and kids the things they want. Well, if you’re a rich guy, you don’t have a problem. Evil comes in when you don’t have time anymore with your family. Surely, they’ll be hurt.
Anyhow, all of us have both good and evil playing in our lives. Even with the holiest person, you may see in the church ground, you don’t know what he does in the dark when no one’s around. All of a sudden, you may hear in the news that your parish priest, whom you thought to be very religious and spiritual, is all the while involved in child molestation or sex with a minor. I say the priest has committed a greater evil where pain is severe because of the trauma caused on the child.
However, for a man who can’t control his sexual desires for another woman, instead of fucking around, masturbation must be done. After cumming, lust will subside.
If solo masturbation is a boring routine for you, then go for a hand job in a massage spa at least once a week and politely ask the masseuse to make your dick happy.
That’s lesser evil. Comparing you’re maintaining an extra-marital love affair, it’s expensive. Trust me. I’ve been around. Not only it drains your pocket, it’s also mind draining because you’re living in constant fear of getting caught.
Mike M. Luster 