There are many things you can do to level up your sex life, and using a sex toy can be one of them. Here are a few tips you can use in choosing your sex toy!
Whether you’re a beginner or someone already familiar with using sex toys, the very first thought that you should keep in mind is that there is nothing shameful or dirty about incorporating sex toys into your sex life or routine. It has a lot of benefits such as improved sexual stamina, a better understanding of your body, increased confidence, and a better body image. Apart from helping you orgasm, they are also helpful in finding out where you feel pleasure the most. The body is a vessel full of secrets waiting to be discovered, and all you have to do is listen to your body.
How to Choose the Right Sex Toy
- Pinpoint where you want to be stimulated the most. This is a crucial step in determining what toy fits you best because every sex toy serves a different purpose.
- Assess your preferences. Do you prefer sex toys that you can use externally? Or would you like to try sex toys that penetrate?
- If you have a partner, try to communicate your desire to incorporate sex toys into your routine, and figure out what arrangement you are both comfortable in the most.
- Slowly incorporate your sex toy into your routine; using too many at once or suddenly using it without preparation can lead to a bad first-time experience.
- Explore and read more about what else you can try, depending on your preferences.
Commonly Used Sex Toys by Women
According to various studies and surveys to determine which sex toys women find pleasurable the most, the top sex toys that they prefer are:
- Vibrator. A vibrator takes on many forms, it can be shaped like a wand or a bullet. Additionally, another commonly used vibrator is a rabbit vibrator, which brings pleasure to both the clitoris and vagina.
- Dildo. A dildo is a sex toy shaped like a penis. Usually made out of silicone, it comes in various lengths and sizes. It is available as a manual one and as a vibrating one.
- Anal Beads. Anal beads are designed to increase the pleasure of orgasm. It is made out of multiple beads increasing in size, which you slowly insert into the anus.
- Butt Plugs. Similar to a dildo, butt plugs are shorter in size and go into the anus. Its purpose is to stimulate the butt area and help adjust the anus for penetration.
- Clitoral Stimulator. A clitoral stimulator is designed to create pulsing vibrations or movements across the clitoris, which can lead to intense orgasms.
In conclusion, sex toys exist not to hinder you from enjoying sexual intercourse, but to help you make the most out of it. Instead of looking at sex toys as shameful or something that your partner might be offended about, look at it as an extra way to have a more sensual sexual experience.
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